Testimonials

“Honestly, I nearly didn't finish it. First few chapters felt like they weren't describing me. I kept thinking this is for someone with bigger problems. Set it down for about a week. Then something happened in a conversation with my girlfriend that matched exactly what chapter 6 was talking about, and I couldn't ignore it anymore. Went back and read the rest in two sittings. I won't pretend I agreed with everything. A couple of chapters felt stretched. But the parts that hit, hit hard. The section on why you try harder when you feel less sure of yourself. I've been doing that for years without realizing it.”

— Rob M. , 34 , Bristol · Power Edition

“Still on chapter 8. Stopped to write this. It's good. Back to reading.”

— Tom B. , 27 , Glasgow · Power Edition

“I read the first 3 pages and closed the book. I saw myself in them and didn't like it. I opened it again the next day. Couldn't put it down.”

— M.C. , 34 , Toronto · Power Edition

“The first time a book told me exactly what I was doing wrong, without making me feel attacked. I tried what it said at the end of chapter 2 the next morning.”

— A.R. , 29 , Sydney · Power Edition

“I didn't expect it to be hard. It is. Not hard to read, but it forces you to look at yourself without excuses. Exactly what I needed.”

— D.M. , 41 , Chicago · Power Edition

“Nothing changed overnight. But a few weeks in I noticed I was reacting differently to the same situations. The relationship shifted after that.”

— R.P. , 37 , Dublin · Power Edition

“I don't know if this is a compliment, but this book got under my skin. Made me realize I was the problem. Not easy to sit with, but that's exactly why it's worth it.”

— C.I. , 32 , Melbourne · Power Edition

“Chapter 7 described my last three relationships in a way I couldn't argue with. I went back and read it twice. Then I stopped making the same move I'd been making for years.”

— James R. , 28 , Manchester · Power Edition

“Doesn't pump you up. Doesn't tell you you're great. Just finds the exact problem and puts it in front of you. The thing at the end of each chapter. That alone is worth more than most books I've read on this.”

— David K. , 33 , New York · Power Edition

“Each chapter ends with one thing to actually do that week. Something concrete, right now. That's what was missing.”

— Marcus T. , 36 , Vancouver · Power Edition

“Closed it after 4 pages. Too accurate. Opened it again that same night.”

— T.M. , 30 , Edinburgh · Power Edition

“I've read a lot of books like this. Most told me what to do. This one was the first to show me why I kept not doing it. Took me a week to finish. Not because it's long, but because I kept stopping to sit with it.”

— Dan B. , 38 , Auckland · Power Edition